Gotta try this tonight

Not sure who the original author is but it holds some truth in it. By the way, this isn’t some stupid chain letter where you’ll die or go poor by the end if you don’t deposit RM10,000 in order to claim the inheritance of some dead rich person from a novel. So you’re safe to read this story from start to finish. 😛

Once, a professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see and asked the students, “How much do you think this glass weighs?” ’50 gram!’ ….’100 gram!’ …..’125 grams!’ ……the students answered.

“I really don’t know unless I weigh it,” said the professor, “but, my question is: What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?”

“Nothing.” the students said.

“OK. What would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?” the professor asked.

“Your arm would begin to ache” said one of the students.

“You’re right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?” “Your arm could go numb, you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis; have to go to hospital for sure” ventured another student. All the students laughed.

“Very good. But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?” Asked the professor. “No,” replied the students. “Then what caused the arm ache; the muscle stress?”

“Instead, what should I do?” The students were puzzled.

“Put the glass down” said one of the students. “Exactly!” said the professor.

“Life’s problems are something like this. Hold them for a few minutes in your head; they seem OK. Think of them for a long time; they begin to ache. Hold them even longer; they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything.”

It is important to think of the challenges in your life, but EVEN MORE IMPORTANT to ‘put them down’ at the end of every day before you go to sleep. That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh, strong, can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!

Remember friend – PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY!

I was really inspired by this story because I saw it connecting with me TWICE. I see myself relating to how a long thought paralyses me. I’ve noticed the longer I ponder on something the more difficult it becomes to make a decision. Plus, in effect may affect your followers too.

Then, I really liked the point of how before we go to bed, we should clear our minds. I’ve gone to bed feeling more refreshed the next morning because my mind was empty and without dreams. Some researchers have said when you don’t dream, you’re in a very calm state of mind.

Ohmm….

Our real dream wedding

Me and Ariel recently joined the WedInk Tattle’s wedding contest by The Peak Xperience. What’s more amazing was, we were shortlisted as 1 of 5 couples for the grand prize to have our dream wedding made into reality!

wedink tattle couple
O-hai!

Our dream wedding in less than 500 characters

The submission required us to submit a description of our dream wedding. I’m no copywriter so I described it ala blogger-style lor. LOL!

Inspired by the cuteness we both share and love in Japanese-Korean culture. The dream wedding where beauty is formed by simple elegance, yet has space for our playfulness. A dream wedding our family and friends will remember for its uniqueness and cuteness. The dream wedding experience we can tell our kids that it was not only a dream.

Our REAL dream wedding

Because the description isn’t much, here are some ideas we’ve discussed we want to have and some ideas we wish we could have later.

Meet Danbo

This is a Japanese toy I’ve been looking for high-and-low and Ariel loves it too because it’s just so cute. The figurine originated from the Japanese comic; Yotsubato – read volume 28. I’ve not finished the whole story yet but it’s a good laugh to take some tension away because of the main character’s (Yotsuba) antics. LOL!

danbo with balloon
Credits: Cake@June

Pictures on a clothes line

We actually have a miniature version in our room, on a corkboard. But what we really want to do is have a line of pictures of us, our friends, family and even our wedding, stringed up for everyone to imagine the life we’ve had before reaching this point.

wedding clothes line pictures
Credits: Ruffledblog.com

Chibi-fied

An online friend of mine; CheeChingy, put in a special request to have Chibi-ness injected into our wedding. Well, given the chance, we definitely want it to happen because it’s part of the Japanese culture we both love too.

chibi illustration
Credits: Ariel Yoong

This was something Ariel drew for me in 2007, then I helped illustrate in Illustrator to bring it to life. The 2bblur Inc name was the initial name I had for my personal brand – gosh, what was I thinking!

The White Bear

Okay. We would love to have such a huge white bear that size but we’re going to be a little more practical. Part of our dream wedding is to have white bears on the registration table for guests. And, we’ve already found a few for this occasion. 😀

white bear
Credits: Lacarmina.com

Interactive and Fun Cocktail Session

This may be too much to ask of guest. But I was pitching the idea to Ariel of having some photos of us on an easel. Then, there’d be speed bubbles for our guests to write a message.

think of salmon
Credits: Cameranoob.com

Save the date

When it came to our invitation cards, we wanted something our guests would keep and find it interesting – we’re both spaced out creatives. One of the ideas Ariel liked was this invitation card where guests scratch out to get the date.

wedding invitation card
Credits: Unknown

The idea I had started off with origami being Japanese inspired. Then, it led me to the idea of paper crafts.

foldable paper toy
Credits: Unknown

However, this won’t really be an invitation card but more like a subtle reminder of our cute wedding which will be happening. 🙂

Takeaway please

We went through the wedding dinner part by part, thinking what else can we do to make it even cuter. What else we may have missed out in the details. It was, wedding favors.

paper craft bento box
Credits: Beverage.co.jp

The kawaii-ness (cute-ness) of a bento box is what makes Japanese culture Japanese. It’s like if you go to Japan, you must eat sushi. Well, this will be one of the ideas we’ll be toying with too. 🙂

That’s pretty much some of the stuff we have in mind to make our wedding the cutest one, ever!

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Domo-arigatougozaimashita~